Living life to the full – carers and families

Around 66,000 people in Scotland have dementia. Early on, the person might just be forgetful or have problems counting money. Later, people become more confused, losing track of conversations. Eventually, they may need help with everyday tasks such as eating and dressing. But at every stage there's plenty that people with dementia - and their carers - can enjoy.

Jim Hardie (72) from Peterhead will not let Alzheimer's disease stop him from doing the things he enjoys most and goes about his daily routine as normal. However, when he was first diagnosed in 2005, his feelings were very different. Joining the Positive Dementia Group transformed everything for him and his wife, who cares for him. The Group has 12 members with some form of dementia. Meeting monthly, they share their feelings about what is happening and also participate in activities and discussions that encourage positive thinking. Once every two months, Jim attends a Scottish Dementia Working Group, which uses his experience to influence and inform Health and Social Work Departments.

Dorothy and Jim say:
“When I was first diagnosed, I felt very isolated and singled out somehow, as though I was the only one with Alzheimer's. But through the Positive Dementia Group, that's all changed. Also, I still enjoy living on the croft I grew up on, I spend time at the fishery and look after a horse. I'm never bored." Jim Hardie”

Jim's wife and carer, Dorothy (69), explains: "They inspire each other through the Group, finding a new confidence, which keeps them strong. Now Jim's very open about his illness and doesn't hide it. Our family and close friends are all supportive. I feel I can relax around the other couples in the Group, as we're all in the same boat. We have met so many new friends through Jim's group and go on many trips and outings together, too.”